Confessing Your Love Your Way

Okay, so you are in love. That’s a great feeling, isn’t it? Now all you’ve got to do is tell her how you feel. There are a number of ways that you can do this and none of them include you being eaten up by the floor. So relax and just think of how much you love her and want her to know how you feel. Nerves don’t stand a chance when the occasion is this special.

The day:

Choose the day very wisely. If she says yes, this will be a memorable day for the rest of your lives. Special days like Christmas, her birthday are good to go. Better still, tell her on Valentines Day. Snowy days or a day when the weather is the most accommodating, would be a good day to confess your love too.

The place:

Choose a place where both of you will be comfortable and also mostly alone. Choose her favorite place if you can. Act normal. Just ask her to go out with you. Let her suspect nothing. Girls love surprises.

The way:

Take her out to the place you chose. Act very normal and don’t let her think something’s up your sleeve. Sit her down, make her comfortable and then tell her how you feel. Look into her eyes and bare your soul. Be honest about your feelings and no need for flashy jargons, just say it.

Other ways:

You could write her a letter with your sincere feelings and then send it over to her with a huge bouquet of the flowers she loves. Be sure to put a lot of feeling into that letter.

When you are out with her, send her an anonymous note or gift. See how she reacts when she finds out what’s cooking. That is the most natural and honest reaction you’ll get.

If you want to tell her over the phone, do it with élan. Play her favorite song first. Then play a song that says it all. Then follow it up with words of your own; something that will make her want to come over that instant.

In the end, don’t be pushy. Wait for an answer. If you are going through this much trouble, I’m sure she won’t say no.