Dealing With Jealousy

Name the most important devil that kills a relationship. It is Jealousy? Absolutely correct it is. Jealousy makes you angry, jealousy makes you weak and jealousy gets the dearest person afar from you. This is the part that hurts the most.

You know how much you love her and you are jealous, but she doesn’t understand you. She is just going away from you bit by bit. And this is because though jealousy is somewhat embedded in almost everyone, it is not actually being born of love but of weak self-image.

Yes, when you doubt your qualities to deserve her, you start becoming jealous. First of all, learn to fix your self-esteem, that is, your self-image. Know who you are and where you are coming from. Know what you want and decide how you will get it. Knowing your true self and getting comfortable with it nurtures self-confidence and strengthens you from inside.

But not only do you need to fix your inner self but also your outer self. They say that, when you are comfortable with your appearance (your outer self), you suddenly tend to lift up the inner self. This is basic psychology. Put on the best attire, confirm yourself in the mirror and start the day with a kiss to yourself. You will feel a lot better.

Remember, jealousy crops up when you feel insecure. Learn to weed off that insecurity and you will stop being jealous. And one best way to deal with jealousy and insecurity is to engage in honest communication with your girl. If you are feeling bad about something or just anything is bugging you, just clarify it with her. Don’t let it eat you from the inside. Get it out! But never get aggressive or angry on her. She might not be at fault. Why would you punish her for nothing? Just try to understand the situation.

But remember, most of the time, jealousy is only a shadow. So don’t fall for it and learn to have trust and faith on your partner. In fact, if you show that you trust her and believe her, she will want to keep that.