Do You Think He’s Ready For Commitment

When you’re looking for a serious relationship, you don’t want to while away your time with someone who is not willing to make a commitment. You want a focused relationship that promises more. You want to know that you are on to something great. On your journey towards finding that perfect relationship that actually leads somewhere, you will have to meet with a lot of men. You have to be picky about who you spend time with. Boggled? Don’t be. Here’s what you should be looking for:

1.    A man whose friends and family in the closest circles are married.
Though they are chances that he may be the lone rider of the group, it is likely that if his friends are married, he may be looking to settle down too. Our peers influence us a lot. The closer they are to us, the more influence they will have. If he is surrounded with married people, he just might be missing what the other people in his life have – marital bliss.

2. A man who has his finances in order.
Young men of our generation shy away from commitment before they feel they are finally settled and can provide support to a family. If he owns assets like a house and a car, he is more likely to get married and finally start a family.

3. A man who genuinely likes to be with you.
What good would it be to marry someone who doesn’t really like you that much? If you are excited about a guy, gauge his interest in you. If he likes to spend quality time with you, doing simple things, just being with you, wanting to know more about you, and displaying genuine interest in you, chances are, he is commitment ready.

4. A man who doesn’t rush things up.
Love can make even the most impatient, turn patient. Men who are serious about their women know how to be patient with them. If he gives you your space and waits to know you better before getting more intimate, he’s your man.

5. A man who’s with you in sickness and in health.
No one wants to be with someone who’s only with them in times of happiness. If he spends time with you when you’re not at your best, you can count on him for support. This creates a mutual trust and respect for each other. A person who values respect in a relationship, values commitment.