Friends at workplace
Are you ready to handle work place friendship? Do you know where to draw the line? Remember, if a friendship at work can get you a cushy job it can also make you loose one. It is a fact that men can handle criticism better. They are emotionally stronger as they think from there head but women on the other hand, are of a nurturing nature and are more sensitive. Anything said by a colleague or there seniors is taken personally.
This advice is especially for the ladies. If you make good friends in office it will be easier for you to take out your office frustration. By following certain rules you can make good genuine friends without having to suffer deception and misunderstanding Initially observe people around you. Watch there behavior, body language, postures and facial expressions.
For instance, a person who is instinctively helpful and comes to the rescue of an underdog is the kind of person who will stand by you as well in your most difficult situations. Try making such genuine people your friends.
Moreover, there are certain ethics and principles in the corporate rule book which must be followed. For instance, paying too much attention towards the person of the opposite sex or helping them might make other people envious. This may also give a wrong impression.
In such friendships a right balance is required. If you make a friend of the opposite sex make sure you are very conscious with the way you communicate with them in the office. Over friendly behavior could lead to trouble with the management.
Don’t judge people by the first impression they make on you. Remember, the clothes do not make a man. If you really want to know how a person is, ask there team mates and people who work with them closely. They can give a better picture of that person’s character and nature.
Try to have friends among the subordinates. They are the ones who are going to help you complete the work in time or help you to de stress. They are also the ones who will provide good words on your performance, that is, if you are in good terms with them.
Remember, professionalism rules friendship in the office. Competition between work friends will always be there. For instance in the official rat race the men usually take it as “let the best man win”. They do not mix professionalism with friendship but women on the other hand take it personally and forget the fact that in an office it’s the career that comes first not friendship.
In the end, make sure you are friendly with everyone. Show your sincerity towards others.Dont gossip and bitch unnecessarily. Seek the same qualities in your friends as well. Make sure they are honest, reliable and dependable. Remember, being professional is different but being untrustworthy is a different ball game all together.
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