Games That Help You To Know A Guy Better

So it’s quite some time that you have been talking to that guy or dating him. You really like him and wonder if he could be that “Mr. Right” you have been looking for.

But then, you are not so sure about what he thinks and what his mentality is regarding various kinds of things. It becomes more difficult to know someone when he is equally interested in you as in that case he will be portraying all the good things in himself and speak about things or say things which are sure to impress you. Then does it mean that there is no way of knowing and understanding that guy until and unless he lets you know about things for himself ?

Of course there are ways to know a guy well enough and not let the guy know or understand that you are on your way of accomplishing the mission “know him better”. The best part is that while you get to know a guy better, you necessarily do not have to get into some serious discussion leading to boredom for either of you or ending up having an argument or fight with each other. There are certain games which allow you to know a person better while both of you have fun. Let’s know more about such games which will help you understand a guy and entertain both of you at the same time.

Truth or Dare

This is a very famous game played across the world. It can be played in groups or with friends too. But when played with a guy whom you are considering, it can reveal a lot about the guy to you. The rules of this game are simple. An empty bottle is spinned or wheeled on a table or on the floor so that it goes in circles.

Once the bottle stops spinning, the person whom the mouth of the bottle points at has to choose between telling a truth and daring to do something weird or dangerous or simply crazy that the other person asks him to do. If the person chooses “truth” then you can ask him anything that you want to know and he has to answer that with full honesty.

So, you can play this game and find out how daring or adventurous the guy is and also get to know few true facts about him. If you do not find a bottle to play this game, you can as well use a pen, a stick or anything which is not round in shape and has two ends. Alternatively, you can also toss a coin to play this game.

Two Truths One Lie

In this game the guy tells you three things about himself or makes three statements about himself two of which are true and one a lie or false one. It is your job to guess which one is the lie or untrue statement. This too reveals a lot about the people playing the game and is a wonderful, entertaining game for understanding or knowing a guy better.

“What If …..”

Well, this will require both of you to be a little imaginative so that you two can build up imaginative or hypothetical situations and present the same to the other person and find out how the other person would react to it or handle it. This game gives you a real chance to know if the guy is a romantic one, if he is practical, if he is emotional, if he is dependable, etc. This is a great game to know about the nature of the guy, how responsible he is and how serious he is about you.

Question, Question

As the name suggests, all you two have to do in this game is ask each other questions directly and turn by turn. There can be many variations of this game. Firstly, both of you write a number of questions in small sheets of paper and then put them in a bowl.

Then both of you choose one question each from the bowl and answer it. You two can also make separate lists of questions and he has to choose the ones from your list that sound interesting to him. Or else, you can simply look into each other’s eyes and ask impromptu questions.

“I Have Never….”

This is a game where you make a statement about yourself mentioning something that you have never done in your life. The other person has to reply back to your statement saying if he has or has not done the mentioned thing. You can introduce variations to this game too. For example, if the guy has done it then he has to give you a gift or a prize for each such thing that you have not done and he has done and vice versa.

To make the game interesting make statements about things that are really crazy, naughty or weird. The weirder the thing you make the statement about, the spicier the game becomes and helps you discover such things about the guy which are secret and about which the guy wouldn’t have told you otherwise. So basically this game gives you ample scope of discovering that area of the guy’s life which is usually kept hidden by him and not displayed in public.

“Would You Rather….”

Another game from the “Know him better through questions” family. This is yet another game which requires imagination as you would have to create hypothetical situations and provide probable solutions for them too. So, when you ask a question to him, you also give him a number of options to choose from and answer. This game too lets you understand about the nature and thinking process of the guy and at the same time limits his scope of being diplomatic or too clever to get away without revealing much about his thinking.

Apart from these games there are certain games available online which you can play with a guy and know him better.