Her Mobile Number and First Date

Lastly, you have managed her mobile number anyhow and getting on top for that as well. And till now, you might well have started weaving a whole lot of actions, scenes, romance, chat etc with the girl in tow while sitting idle in the park outside the town or at the table in the restaurant nearby. And your first date seems not too far away once things go the way you’re still conjuring them to be. You have firmly set the eyes on her and the date you both will have, and you’re taking every possible step to win over her heart for that “first date”.

Now, it comes down to the gut feeling, courage, conversation and wooing skills that will set the tone and the first date for you. But then, you got to be extra careful to end up seeing her with you, rather than losing her without even reaching to that first date. Thus, once after getting her number, ensure that she rightly lands where you wish her to be with the steps like:

Calling early
Once the number is with you, getting too late might take out the passion, excitement and zeal from her. She might not feel the same pinch you do once you start her calling late. Why getting late for almost nothing, thus get up dude, and strike with a bang with the acts like:

Be tender
Start the conversation being a tender and well-mannered chap and stretch the tone as you get the space and your chance to strike. Your being polite means avoid hurling too many questions at her and neither turning chatter-box right then. Have a right blend and ask only what matters you the most with the delicacy, charm, tenderness and affection of a first-timer.

Be sweet and swift
Don’t give her impression of being a bored guy and be sweet and swift in approach. Keep changing track and don’t forget giving her space to utter something.

Show flexibility
Once the talks veers around you, show him anyhow your flexibility and rather put her in confusion by showing your non-availability. Don’t talk too much to tell her everything.

Give the verdict
Once the talk gets 3-4 minutes old, come out with the verdict tenderly and put up the magical question of the first date in front of her. Be decisive and set-up the date and time you like, and leave the place to decide her for a balanced talk.