How to Approach Women

The most basic thing which comes to our whenever we think of approaching women is the opener. What opener to use? We have always come across stupid pick up lines as:

“Your eyes are all red, my favorite color.”

“I’m no Fred Flintstone but I sure can make your bed rock.”

“My feet smell like Doritos.”

“How much”

“Can I buy you a drink or you just want the money?”

“I’ve heard sex is a killer. Want to die happy?”

“Excuse me, I’m new in town. Can I have directions to your place?”

And many more…When we normally think of the players approaching women, we think that they use these pick up lines. Well, if you do a survey, you will find that none of these pick up lines work. In fact, if you don’t want to get a slap from a girl or be made fun of in front of the public, don’t resort to these stupid lines. They are of no help!

An opener should have three basic things:

1. Normal
2. High Status.
3. Capability of starting up a conversation.

Let’s start with number one. The first and foremost thing to be remembered (even so if you are not approaching in a club or a bar at midnight) is to be socially graceful. She wants to feel comfortable and not be put under too much social pressure, when you approach her. Just try to be normal. Don’t come off as something queer and extraordinary.

You should convey that you are one of those alpha men who have a high status among other men. You should convey value about yourself. If she believes she’s the best, she wants one of the best. And remember, that needs to be a MAN.

Last but not the least is it should open up a conversation with her. That’s why, something as a compliment or any open question is best for approaching women.