How to become a better lover?

A lot of men and women believe that people who are amazing lovers have a gift from the heavens to the opposite sex. Believe it or not, this is the biggest myth of the century! Being good in bed does not come as a free gift by nature; it comes by keeping some basic things in mind. Here are a few of those things,

First and the foremost, Recognize that making love is not just about you. It is a two way street. Love making involves finding pleasure while giving pleasure. During the action, make sure your state of mind is to please your companion first and then yourself.

Ask your partner what they like, what turns them on and then try doing it when you make out. More so try new things that you think will really give your partner more satisfaction. But, don’t forget, whatever you do it should be with complete approval of your significant other.

Keep in mind, Sex has two forms, physical and mental. The mental form includes one on one interaction. Communicate your desires and fantasies mentally to your partner and also ask them theirs. Tell them to describe there fantasies. You can always use that information in the sack while making love to them.

This advice is especially for the guys; pay a lot of attention to foreplay. Women always remember a good kiss. And while on base-2 make sure you really nibble on the neck, the back and the spine. These are a few female weak spots. Foreplay is essential because it makes women feel appreciated and most importantly it helps them relax and get aroused properly.

This one’s for the women never lie down on bed with your man like a mannequin, instead take the initiative to make your man happy. Tell him how much you want him in the sack. Give him sensuous gestures. Nothing arouses a man more than a woman telling him, she wants him. Remember, being a great lover is not about how long you last but the passion, consideration and desire you show for your partner.