How to Develop Intimacy?

Intimacy between two people cannot come in a day or a week or even a year. It is a long process, which occurs over time. Here are some tips to help you:

Spending time together:
A great relationship requires intimacy. Spending time together does not mean having sex or discussing issues about kids, home etc. But it means sharing a little bit of you with each other by just talking and listening without passing any judgment or criticizing one another.

Trust:
This is the basis of any intimate relationship. This is one thing which can make or break a marriage. It is not only infidelity where trust is required but you need to have faith in each other regarding day to day issues also.

Acceptance:
You need to accept your partner as they are. Always remember one thing that no body has the capability to change anybody. Offering tips is okay but forcing something on your spouse is pushing them further away from you. No matter how hard you try but you can never change the other person.

Laughter:
Try to laugh together, watch funny movies or comedy serials. You will be surprised how much life will come back in your marriage if you are able to share jokes together.

Communication:
You need to talk. Don’t pretend all is well when it is not. Conversation makes the couple know each other. You are able to know the fears, struggles and temptations and are able to help each other, overcoming the difficulties.

Apologize:
There is no marriage where couples don’t fight and at times say hurtful things which are not meant. Apologizing means you are aware of your spouse’s feeling and also accept your fault.

Sex:
Sex is a very important part of marriage. You need to bring spontaneity and adventure in your sex life. Don’t let days turn into weeks turn into months before you have sex. Don’t be afraid top know and tell each other how and where to do it.

Space:
Generally it is seen one of the spouse does not like their partner enjoying themselves. Let your partner live their life. Every individual, whether married or unmarried, is entitled to have their own life.

Marriage is like a wine. It needs time to mature. A little effort can make an ordinary marriage into an extra ordinary one.