How To Know If A Guy Is Available?

You are single and looking for a decent guy, who you can date and then take that relationship a little further. For that, you may consider many places to meet new people; nightclubs, singles bars, coffee shops or a common friend’s party, you can hit anywhere to find your Mr. Right.

But when you meet a new individual and instantly grow a liking towards him, you have to be very careful about certain things. First of all, you have to see if he is actually single!

Faith is an essential element of a relationship, but not everyone likes to ask too personal questions to the person you have just started dating. Well, don’t worry, we will tell you about some signs that can surely convey if a guy is available. Just read through and find out:

Ask Him Directly

When you meet the guy for the first time, ask him directly about his relationship status. If he says that he is into something serious but wants to come out of it and start afresh, you can tell him to contact you once he is completely out of his first relationship. An honest guy will surely do that. However, if your date is a doubtful person, don’t forget to watch for his body language when he talks of his current relationship status.

Do You See Anything Doubtful?

He never attends calls in front of you; either he goes to another room or outside the café…He tells you repeatedly that he has to reach home at some specific time for which he doesn’t have any solid reason…He asks you to call him at some particular time everyday and disconnects it if you call him some other time…He usually hang out with this guy friends at places which are usually surrounded by singles. So, is it normal? Well, not really.

Talk To Him About Family And Friends

Sometimes, you may even ask him casual questions on his personal life and friends. If you notice any sort of discomfort from his side, be sure that he is not thinking of a long term bond with you. May be, he figured out that its just attraction from his side.

Know His Buddies

Actually, our friends are not the people we want, but the people we are. Knowing his friends will tell you how is. Plan an outing or organize something and invite them. If you want to have a clear view of his availability, you got to hang out with his pals, both guys and girls.

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Tell Him,You’re Eeager To Visit His Place

In the initial stages, the guy may not ask you to come at his place—which is quite normal. But once you have built a good rapport with him (but still not in a relationship!), you can tell him that you want to see the place where he lives.

Make sure that you have no naughty intentions; you just want to come over for watching some good movies together. As a romantic signal, you can also request him to cook a special meal for you. If the guy seems more than happy to hear all these from you, he is available.