How to know if the man you love, loves you

There are times when you love a guy and yet are not sure whether he loves you too. I know, the male species often like to keep you guessing. Their fascination with mystery and letting you hang around is beyond the understanding of any woman. Yet, women want to find out and here’s how you can understand if the man you love, loves you too.

Learn to read his body language carefully. A man who likes you will be a bit timid in your presence. He might stammer sometimes of just fumble for words. He will find excuses to touch you and laugh at your silliest of jokes. He will playfully tease you and most likely comply with your whims. However, a man who loves you will do all of this and also show real interest in the happenings of your life. He will listen to your woes and will really care.

You can ask your friends what they think. Often an outsider’s perspective is most likely correct. What you miss can be just what they have picked up. However, remember that your friends will only say what they think is right. Do not take it to be a hundred percent true.

You can of course ask him directly whether he loves you. This might be awkward or you might face rejection or embarrassment but it would be worth it. He could also be offended by so direct an approach but that is most unlikely if the guy is shy and needed your approach to push him over to the good side. A harmless inquisitive conversation never hurt anybody. Just be tactful and base your questions according to the degree of your acquaintance.

The other thing that tells you whether the man loves you is your instinct. A woman’s soul always knows whether a man loves her. Try and ask yourself whether you think the guy loves you. You’ll know for sure.

If the person you questioned replies in the negative, you should try to steer the conversation carefully out of troubled waters and also play it off as a joke. It would save you the humiliation.

The last thing is that you should carefully decide where you stand. If the man is really interested and loves you, he will show it somehow or the other. You could try patience before trying other ideas.