How To Tell If A Guy Really Loves You

“I love you” has become such a cliché that it leaves most of us in doubt when we hear it from our partners. These days people do not mind faking an “I love you” just for the heck of it. So, how do you know if your guy really mean it when he says it? Well, here are some ways to find out:

If a guy really loves you he will want you to meet his friends and family. If he gives you unreasonable excuses for not introducing you to his near and dear ones then that means he is not serious. So stop deceiving yourself by thinking that you should wait. Leave him and find yourself someone who really would want to paint the town red for you!

Another thing that clearly shows a guys feeling is his ‘Concern’ for you. If he is always there through thick and thin and does not miss a single opportunity to show you how much he cares, then he definitely loves you. On the contrary, if he is indifferent and never bothers to show up when you need him then he is just not that into you. Remember, a guy who ‘loves’ you will do whatever it takes to be there for you when you need him the most.

A guy who loves you will want to bond with you not just physically but also emotionally. If your boyfriend prefers calling or meeting you only at nights and most often then not shies away from a day date then you are just a booty call for him. He does not love you and is only in the relationship for sex.

A person’s body language says a lot about the way he feels inside. Try observing him, his touch, his embrace and the way he makes love. Men like holding women they love and they handle them gently and with care. If your guy is usually insensitive and does not really bother about your needs then he is not in love with you. Furthermore, if your guy is distracted every time you are trying to hold a conversation then that is a sign that he does not care enough.