Is It Time To Say ‘I Love You’?
So you have been seeing someone for a while. Things are going great and you have got very close to them. You share great chemistry, have a lot of fun together and your heart beat raises every time you think of them. Do you think it’s time to say the three magic words?
Not before you think through objectively.
Being with some one who makes you happy can blind you temporarily to the graver aspects of making the next big move. There are some things that you should keep in mind.
Evaluate your feelings for the person. If you say “I love you” without really meaning it, it would be unfair to both of you. Eventually, both of you will know that the words were said in a moment of passion and were not as deeply felt as they should have been. Ask yourself some questions. Are you professing love, looking to have some sex? Are you saying “I love you” just so that they will feel better? Are you saying the words to make them regard you more highly? Answers to these questions would tell you whether you are really prepared to utter those powerful words.
When you do decide that you love them and want to share your life with them, give it a lot of thought. Think of what you will say, when and how you will say it. Though spontaneity is a great trait to have, you don’t want to befuddle something as special and important as this! You don’t have to plan everything to the last detail, just make sure that you have some fair idea of how you want to go about the whole thing.
While it would be great if they responded positively you should be open to a negative response too. Sometimes it does happen that you and your partner are not on the same page. They might not be ready to make a commitment or might have some other constraints that keep them from being as excited as you. Just because they don’t say “I love you” back, doesn’t mean that the relationship has to end. They will respond when they are ready. Of course if you are not really prepared to wait, then there is no other way than to end things.
The dynamics of a relationship changes when those three powerful words are spoken. It is a big leap towards the next stage of your relationship and more often than not it has a irreversible effect on your relationship. Give your partner time to come to terms and be gentle with them. Being truly in love with someone means being patient with them and handling them delicately.
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