Is true love difficult to find?

Love is an emotion that has always found place in the lyrics and poems of poets, since centuries. Some opine that, love is “life”; others say that in any relationship the base is only of love. Well, everyone may have different opinion about love. We have different kind of love, for the various kinds of people in our lives. The love that is between a daughter/son with parents would be different from the love that is for one’s beloved.

We do spend time on analyzing our love, and have intellectual conversation about it. Thus, we can say that love is the oldest form of emotions that is widely discussed all over the world.  People wait to find their true love for entire life and when one feels that he/she has found the true love, and then they are even willing to give life for it. Such is the true love.

Different forms of love- love can be in different forms, at different levels and stages for different people and relationships. But with love comes the basic essence of caring, it would be always present. It’s quite natural to care about a person whom you love.

Right chemistry- in any relationship the word chemistry readily founds a place. One cannot do without chemistry in a relationship. The spark should keep the love burning; this spark helps the partners to know about each other in more intimate and deeper level.  That natural attraction, spark in eyes, sweetness in voice are the elements that keep a relationship work. Rest is mere infatuation. It is a slow and gradual process that develops over a period of time. And only after spending a considerable amount of time, the mutual liking grows. And when one sees the best and worst stuff that your partner can offer, and even then you love him/her, then you truly love the person.

Commitment in love- after delving deeper and finding the true love, next its time to enter into a commitment. People usually move back when the word “commitment” enters any relationship. Here is the stage, where most of the people balk. They shy away by saying that commitment is not needed, if the love is true. Commitment, in a way is overcoming the fears of responsibilities.

Intimacy in love- intimacy is bound to happen when two people come close together. It could be said that it is another step in a relationship. One may not restrict the intimacy to physical level only. It is the amalgamation of two body, mind and soul. The two persons can relate to each other, at a more sublime level, and this is also a form of intimacy.

Is true love hard to find– well most of us opine that true love is hard to find. Well the main reason could be that one may not find every thing, all that we are looking for in one person. No body is a perfectionist. Every body has their own bit of imperfection and limitation. It’s good that we accept his/her flaws because; we also do have some of them.

So true love just doesn’t comes looking for you. In any relationship work from both the partners has to be done. Love has to be nurtured and taken care by both the people then only true love works.