Learn To Read His Body Language

It is not always that the man in your life verbally communicates exactly what he feels. Sometimes to know what is really going on in his head, you have to learn to read what he tells you physically. Traditionally men have not been openly communicative of their feelings. To really know what he’s going through, try noticing the simple things that his body language tells you.

The eyes are the window to the soul – a popular saying goes. There is a lot that you can read from your man’s eyes. If he likes the way you look, his pupils dilate and his eyes dart from one eye of yours to the other, before coming to a halt at your mouth. Also when he’s attracted to you, and unsure of how you feel about him, he will blink more often.

When he is attracted to you he will lean his body into your personal space and talk to you. If you are sitting, he will extend his arms or feet towards you. If you are sitting in a group and he points his body towards you, it’s a gesture of singling you out and giving you undivided attention.

Like women, men also like to appear handsome to the women they are attracted to. They fix their hair or adjust their glasses often. They smooth out wrinkles in their clothes.

If he sits with his legs crossed, with his feet towards you, it means that you turn him on. When he holds your hand and locks his fingers with you, that’s a great sign. It means that he deeply cares for you and feels connected. If he keeps his arms crossed across his chest, it means that he is not interested in whatever you are saying. He silently refuses to open up to you.

There are many other subtle messages that a man’s body passes along, but there are some things that you only understand when you get at a more intimate level with them. However, reading his body language in the initial stages of your relationship is important to make sure that there be a more intimate level with him in time.