Love Tips For Men – Avoid Being Her Emotional Dumping Ground

Most men want to be the quintessential Mr. Perfect for their respective girls and put in way too much of effort in doing so. Still there is something that is lost. You end up not being yourself and more importantly nothing more than an emotional dumping ground to the woman you love.

Men accept being the emotional dumping ground only with one hope that may be one day they would be able to change the notion of that woman making her realize that they are the one for them. Though, it could not be denied that this could probably happen but if you let a woman dump all her worries on your way too much it would not only be hurtful for you but it would also make it difficult for her to see you as someone more substantial than only a dumping ground!

Being there for her when she needs is one thing but when she begins venting things at you it would be bad! This would get you caught up in a cycle and then you would end up being a therapist for her or rather that person whom she come too only in case she faces some problems or needs some suggestions but you surely are not looking at only that. You want to be more than that for her- her partner, her lover! This would fail in developing any kind of attraction towards you besides a purely friendly or even worst – brotherly kind of a feeling.

How you can stop this? Well, the very first thing you can do is make it very clear to her that you don’t intend being her dumping ground. May be when she begins with it you can divert her attention to another topic which has more fun and is light. In spite of your repeated attempts if she still continues may be you could be a little distant from her. Make her realize that this is not what you want to be with her for. If it still doesn’t work out, then may be its time to move ahead.

It’s not wrong to help her out in her problems but you also have to take care of yourself and being her dumping ground would only drain you off emotionally and mentally.