Polygamy in Relationship

Affair proof marriages are in fact dwindling and in most of the cases it is seen that monogamy is gradually becoming and archaic concept. The Indian couple Hrithik and Susanne who were the sweet hearts and maintained that their personal life never entered into the gossip columns, but this was until now the making of KITES and the rumors making rounds of relationship of Hrithik with Barbara Mori. But is it a regular stalemate or split Ville?

Well the common consent is that there is no such thing like affair proof marriages in today’s context. Even relationship experts opine that in very rare cases happy marriages are at less risk than the turbulent ones. In most of the cases affair do happen, out of blue. It could be due to interference between work and marital life.

Especially in urban areas people tend to spend more time at workplace than at home. The office atmosphere has become a sexy place. The working environment becomes a breeding ground of most of the extra marital affairs. The female work force in the office is also rising, and sparks are bound to fly.

People tend to attach the tag “emotional affair” so as to define infidelity in boundaries. It has become a part of marriage lexicon. Life today does not come with any guarantee. Especially in the urban set up, there is no rules, no body to draw the line. Hence avoiding opportunities to shun straying thus becomes critical.

In order to evade entering into any such conditions try not to encourage intimacy with office colleague. See that you avoid inviting male colleagues on business travel in room for drink or dinner. Also try to avoid discussing marital life, fights and arguments with them. Women do tend to share deep feelings and men take this as an invitation. Though most of the people believe that affairs are incorrect but even then they cannot prevent it from happening.

In today’s scenario most of the affairs have become visible. It’s only on the couples have to figure out a way to affair proof their relationship. The fairy tale notions of love often gets faded with time and age, though the thrill of an affair can be flattering, intoxicating and may seem refreshing.