Pros of Dating Older Men

What makes the vivacious, young, intelligent women turn to older men? Many of us men, that is the ones who order pizzas the second they are done getting an orgasm; triceps and quadriceps screaming out loud from under sleek Versace shirts, wonder why the 40-somethings with their subtle salt and pepper look, walk away with the best catch.

Why an increasing number of women prefer a George Clooney or Val Kilmer over the hottest young guns of the time- is a curious question that is yet to meet an answer. And the speculations keep growing more absurd. Ask a woman and she’ll come up with some fifty odd reasons of impeccable merit. Fact remains, that a vast number of women today prefer older men when it concerns getting into relationships.

Women have a higher level of maturity, than the men their own age; naturally they find men older than themselves more compatible and complete. It is easier to connect with them, sharing a level of mental frequency. Sensible women do not like dating men who are still not over their obsession for computer games.

There are those who have an absent father, and an older man some what assumes a father figure or the role of a mentor; someone the lady could look up to and count on, for his years of knowledge and experience. In fact this is often a mutually beneficial arrangement for both the man and the woman. While the woman gains experience, knowledge and guidance from being with a man older than herself, on the other the power balance in the relationship tilts in favor of the man who feels that the relationship is within his grasp and the a sense of being in power pleases him. In effect it brings certain equilibrium.

Older men are generally more steadfast. They are usually established in their career, which brings with it a high possibility of both attaining a stable, neat and comfortable life together. An older man is no longer in college or struggling for a job. Instead he is usually more secured in his profession. That brings security to their relationship.