Relationship Problems- Answers to Some Common Queries

There are numerous problems that couples go through in a relationship. But all couples are not that open about their relationships. They do not go to a counselor to seek advice and settle disputes. We have compiled some of the common problems that people face in a relationship. Our expert counselor answers all the questions.

Question 1: I am 24 years of age and had been in a relationship for 4 years now. My man is a very fun loving person and extremely amicable. This makes easier for him to gel well with people. He often talks to other girls in front of me and even flirts with them. I feel uncomfortable. Am I at denial? Please help.

Answer: Your thinking is pretty common and stereotyped. A lot of women tend to think this way. Being amicable doesn’t necessarily mean that he is being over-friendly to them. A fun loving man is not always a flirt. As long as the flirting is healthy, you needn’t worry. Do not react to such petty things. Better still; talk it out with your partner. Tell him that you do not like him being too friendly with other girls. He is sure to understand. Good luck.

Question 2: I am in love with a man who already has a partner. We had been more than just friends for 2 years now and he never seems to have told me about a relationship he was already into. Now that I have come to know about it, he is being honest about it. But, I just can’t take the fact that he lied to me for so long. I truly love him. But I can’t be vocal about my feelings for the fear of losing him as a friend. Please suggest.

Answer: Being a friend is of much more worth than in a relationship. He must have had some restrains for which he couldn’t tell you about the relationship. If in case you think, he has cheated on you, there’s no point of holding on to the relationship. Moving on, is a much better option. However, don’t fail to sort out things before you conclude anything. All the best!

Hope you could relate to these problems. We wish you good luck in your relationship.