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Signs He’s Just Not That Into You

By on November 27, 2008

I’m sure you have come across men you liked but nothing really happened between you. In spite of you giving pretty obvious signals the guy never really bothered to ask you out. Well, most of the times women come up with reasons like “he might have patched up with his ex” or “he is gay” or “maybe he is confused”.

But the truth more than often is that the guy is—just not that into you. Hearing the words is painful but nonetheless we need to smell the coffee. Remember, do not take it personally, we all have different things we look for in a partner. Here are some signals to find out if he is just not that into you–

First of all, if a guy does not pick up your call then that DOES NOT MEAN he is just too insanely busy to talk to you. It means he is just not that into you. With the advent of cell phones and speed dialing, it is impossible not to call a girl back. Believe it; if a guy were into you, he would call you no matter what.

Moreover, men are not complicated and are purely “black and white”, there are no mixed messages. If he doesn’t ask you out, call you soon after a date, or want to come inside with you after a date, then he’s just not that into you. Remember, if a guy likes you and knows that you like him too then he WILL ask you out. No questions!

If the guy only comes to see you late at night or texts you really late then that means you are just a BOOTY CALL for him. The guy who is too busy to see you during daylight hours but has time to swing by for a quick hook up is just not into you the real way. Don’t fall for it. Remember, if midnight is the only time he sets aside to see you, then beware you have a player in your hands. It’s a way for him to get his sexual desires met while not committing to a real relationship.

Any guy who disappears for Days, Weeks or Months without calling you is SIMPLY not that into you. He is probably seeing someone else or is not ready to commit at all. So, if you find yourself liking a guy who keeps disappearing from your life without a word, forget about him. He is not worth you time or energy.

Lastly, if a guy does not bring up future plans or where he sees your relationship heading even after six months into the relationship then that means he just sees you as a pass time, until he finds someone else. Remember, if a guy really likes you, he will discuss your future together especially, when you are months into the relationship.