Signs That He’s Not Really Into You

God made men and woman differently intending to make them different in every aspect – physically and emotionally. As a result, men and women often interpret a simple situation in different manners. Going forward, they react to the differently interpreted situations, well… differently.

Take for instance, a date. You went out with this dreamy guy, who has a great job, is well read and intelligent. You have the perfect date, right out of a romantic book. You invite him to your place. He gently refuses because he has a meeting the next day. You dream of him that night, thinking of the wonderful time you will have on your next date. The only issue is that there isn’t going to be a next date. After that night, he doesn’t call you back. He doesn’t even take your calls. He cuts you off.

What do you do in such a situation? Do you sit and wonder why he isn’t calling? Do you imagine him to be in a far away land, stuck in an avalanche without any phone connectivity? Or do you take the hint and realize that it’s over and he was simply never that into you?

Most likely, the last answer is correct. He was never that into you. Sure you had a good time. Sure you had chemistry. Sure you would have been great together. He just didn’t see it that way. When a man keeps calling you to get together, and then suddenly washes his hands off you, know that something is not right. Don’t shed tears for it and don’t beat yourself up about it. Just know that it wasn’t meant to be and take it in your stride.

When a guy stops paying attention to you, know that there’s no future with him. He will in all probability while away his time with you and finally withdraw. There cannot be love and affection when there is no interest.