Text Message Flirting

The world is going through an era of technological advances and the way we interact with others has completely changed. Text messaging has become the most popular way of keeping in touch. Text sms is the best form of flirting – it is fun and there is no reason not to participate. However, it is important to follow a few basic guidelines in order to avoid uncomfortable or embarrassing situations.

Don’t text when you are drunk or under the influence of drugs:
Don’t send text messages while under the influence, this could result in a seriously embarrassing situation e.g. texting your ex that you’re still in love with him or disclosing a very sluttish secret about yourself to somebody you like! Text messages, since they are written, can be saved by the recipient and conceivably used as blackmail or can be forwarded to everybody and anybody.

Check all your details before you hit send:
This is very important. Make sure you double check the recipient’s phone number before pressing Send. It could happen that a really sexual text message which was intended for your Bf  goes to a friend or worse your dad! Remember, written documents, have the potential to cause a lot of problems.

Never text while driving:
Don’t mix texting and driving. You have a very high chance of meeting with an accident.

Do not text when you are with someone:
Texting when you’re out with someone could turn them off completely. It makes a person feel that you have no respect for there time. Hence, avoid texting when out in an intimate environment. It’s extremely rude and insensitive.

End the conversation with grace:
Text messaging is not favorable to prolonged chats. Leave the person wanting more. Overly long text chats become monotonous and boring. After a few text messages just leave the last message unanswered – it will keep the excitement alive.

Don’t write complicated messages:
Packing your messages with full of complicated short forms and words can be very un-sexy. Also, avoid being too sarcastic, it will not be received in the right humor from the other person and can cause trouble. Stick to simple but meaningful sentences.

Message timing:
Its not such a good idea to message someone at 3 am in the morning, just because you cant sleep does not mean the other person can’t either. Also, expecting her/him to be all mushy in the office hours is not feasible either. Make sure you message at the right time.