Tips for a happy married life

Each time I come across an old, aged couple who have celebrated their golden or platinum wedding anniversary I look at them with awe and wonder. Let me tell you, having a strong, unchangeable loving relationship for so many years needs a lot of trust, loyalty and of course lots and lots of love. It is very easy to date, have some fun and then totally forget that relationship. It is very important to trust each other, remain loyal to each other and one day look back and feel proud about ourselves.

You see quotes on marriage and you will find that most are extremely critical and sarcastic, making fun of the institution of marriage. You ask newly married couples or those married for a few years, each will give you their own perception of marriage based on their experiences but what exactly is the secret to a successful happy marriage…hope we could find that magic formula and apply it to our marriages.

Firstly your marriage should be built on trust. Love each other unconditionally and wholeheartedly, overlook faults and mistakes, correct gently whenever you can. Never keep relating bad past experiences or mistakes that your spouse may have committed. Forgive, forget and go on with life.

Always remember even though marriages are made in heaven they must be worked out on earth. A successful marriage like most successful ventures can be achieved only by real commitment. You must be able to say that your spouse is your dearest friend, the one who not only has the key to your heart but also knows all your desires and secret longings. Keep your marriage alive with new innovative ideas and creativity. Spice up your sex life and never let boredom enter your bedroom.

Even after the arrival of children, always try to find time together and spend time for each other. It is important to go for a quiet getaway and spend some quality time with each other alone. Celebrate important days in a way that makes your spouse feel special.

One key for any successful marriage is to always speak positive, encourage your partner, never nag or irritate, work together to make your married life memorable and special.