Top Mistakes when Approaching Women

Approaching women is an art and there are some rules to doing it right. Most of the men don’t approach at all and those who do get rejected because they didn’t do it right. If you know what you got to do, you can minimize the negative reaction from the girls and maximize your chance to know someone better.

So, what are the things that you do wrong when approaching women? Okay, let’s start with the basic things stated in the most basic way. There are basically two phases to approaching women: before you open your mouth and after you open your mouth.

Yes, a woman judges you from the moment she sets her eyes on you or plain gets a look of you. She tries to seek the level of masculinity that you house in yourself. And she doesn’t have to hear you speak to know that. Women are very socially intelligent creatures and they know just how to dig out the true you in a matter of seconds. And she finds that through your body language and the vibe that you exude. The way you walk, the way you respond and the way you normally look at life is what tells her if you are worthy or not.

Don’t be nervous or uncomfortable when approaching her because she’ll know that you are not actually around women that much and that lowers your desirability to a very low extent. Shine out your real confident self.

Next is how you speak and what you say. You should never question her too much. You are not an interviewer, are you? It gets very boring and no one likes someone to pester and bore her with incessant questions. Don’t compliment her too much. You don’t want to come off as a fawning little puppy. Don’t tease her too much right off the bat. That’s a sign of your lack of social intelligence. Don’t offer her a drink for god’s sake. She must have had at least a hundred drinks proposed to her in a day. How much would she drink, damn it!

When you are suggested that you should be yourself, you are actually asked to be your NORMAL positive and confident self. They don’t want a joker or a super smooth player. Any healthy woman wants your real confident manliness.