What Are The Worst Ways Of Proposing?

Women and men are keyed in differently. Perhaps that is why they say that men are from Mars and women from Venus. Both of them keep trying to understand each other, but not few really succeed.

Marriage is one thing about which women and men have the most different perceptions. Most women have a dream wedding that they have been planning ever since they knew what weddings mean. They all dream of their own fairy tales, wondering when their prince Charming would kneel on one knee and say the magic words.

For most women, their wedding is the one day when they are the centre of attraction, when the whole world revolves around them and naturally, the proposal has to be phenomenal too.

Some men however, tend to forget that the proposal is almost as important to their women, as the wedding itself. Call it a lack of creativity or a simple error of judgment, some men just don’t do it right.

Here’s a list of ten ways of proposing that will surely make her cringe.

1. In a stadium: You can’t make your proposal more impersonal than this. If the woman you are proposing to is someone who values privacy then the jumbotron of a jam packed stadium is a big no.

2. In a casino: You’re on a lucky streak. You win thousands of dollars and at the roulette table you declare that you want to get married. Most likely, she will be think “great, not only is he impersonal, but also an opportunist!” If you want her to think that, go right ahead.

3. At her work place in front of her colleagues: Sending her flowers at work makes her happy, so why not propose to her there. Right? Wrong. There is nothing more embarrassing than to have your personal life so distastefully disclosed in front of people who you have a professional relationship with. Keep the ring in your pocket. Her office is not for romancing around.

4. At a family dinner: If she’s meeting your family for the first time, then these are the makings of a disaster. She may be anxious, even uncomfortable facing your family for the first time. Add to that, the emotional pressure of a proposal. You’ll be lucky if she doesn’t storm out.

5. Strip Club: What a way to tell your woman that you want to marry her. Take her to a place where almost all the persons of her sex have amazing sex appeal and great bodies and then declare your love for her. If her self confidence is not already reeling, this would surely make it hit rock bottom.

A proposal is intimate, something that should be shared just between the two of you. Take care that it remains something that you and her can look back at and have something to rejoice about. Be frank and open. What matters to her is the love that you feel and the fact that you’d rather be with her and nobody else.